All you need is an unfaithful partner, selfish friends or interfering relatives to make a hell out of your life. Ironically, most of us seem to experience no dearth of such people in our lives.
It does not matter whether you are male or female,if your spouse cheats on you, your life can be hell. You will spend endless hours thinking about it. Infidelity puts people on the edge particularly if the victim is absolutely faithful to the relationship. You have all kinds of hurtful thoughts flooding yourmind and there’s no end to it. There’s nothing that hurts a human being more than the infidelity of the one they love. The victim spends hours each day thinking ‘how can they do this to me?”
If your marriage is on the rocks, better try to salvage it while you can. Instead of badmouthing, swearing and fighting, you should deal with a cool mind and a clear head. That way you may be able to save your relationship and get your life back on track. Most of the time, people manage to resolve the issues involved and patch up to move ahead in life. In some cases, such relationships end in separation or divorce. That’s sad.
Not everyone that develops a friendly relationship with you, is going to turn out to be a good friend. Many size you up to see how they can use you. If you are a simple and straight forward person, you are likely to fall prey to the schemes of selfish friends. They will squeeze all they can out of you and then dump you when you are no longer useful to them. Beware of such friends. Always keep tabs on what your friends are doing. Always keep track of what benefits they are trying to draw from you. Test your friends a couple of times to see if they will stand by you in times of need. If they don’t come good on this account, the best thing to do is to part ways.
With relatives, we don’t have much of a choice because they are gifted by God or nature—whichever way you like to look at it. We don’t invite them into our lives. They come for free quite by chance. We cannot ignore them even if we do not like them. That’s the predicament. Some relatives, particularly elderly ones, take it upon themselves to decide things for you as if that is their supreme duty on earth. And, many a time, they mess up your life knowingly or unknowingly. But the fact of the matter is that you have no choice here. You just have to put up with their indulgence even against your wishes.
Think about it: life would be so wonderful, peaceful and purposeful if only we had the right kind of partner who is caring and faithful; if only we had true friends who would stand by us and support us in times of trials and tribulations; and, if only we had relatives who kept their noses to themselves instead of poking it here and there where there’s no need to do that at all.
If you land up with an unfaithful partner or some selfish friends or interfering relatives, take note of it and start distancing yourself from them. Don’t get too close to them. They are injurious to you and your life. Keep distance…!
